Just like in Secondlife, we have griefers and we have people who live to hurt others. It is sadly becoming a way of life and I truly do not understand what people gain from trying to hurt others.
I love my SL and I love the people on my SL Facebook. No matter what time of the day it is I know if I need to reach out someone will be there. What I don't like is feeling like I am a fence sitter.
I will never choose between two friends who no longer like one another. I will never take a side and I will not say anything bad against anyone who has not hurt me. I will always try to see both sides in a situation and not judge unless I am affected. What I do not like is someone attempting to make me feel like I should.
I will respect someone more if they do not try making me take sides.
I will eventually see the truth for myself and if need be they can say "I told you so".
I don't laugh much at all in my real life. I used to a lot in my SL.
These past 6 months have taken a toll on me and have affected my depression alot. I have lost a lot of people I loved and cared about, people I trusted and adored. I still cry because I recognize a loss, but try to remember I still have much for which to be thankful.
It will take a lot for me to trust again and my circle is small.
When people look at me I want them to think I am happy and coping but like so many others, we wear masks that hide our pain.
Do not sit behind your computer screen and judge me or anyone for that fact. If people would stop trying to hurt others, stopped being jealous and wanting what others have instead of what is in front of them; If people gave kind words instead of angry; If people were more honest and caring with their words....Just imagine how wonderful life would be.
Its pretty easy you know....Don't treat anyone any less than you want to be treated. Do not lie, do not cheat, do not gossip and don't back stab.
Let's smile more, laugh louder and love tenderly.
Hugs Ally